Greetings
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Chara Scroope, Nina Evason,
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- Handshakes are the standard, casual greeting. The grip tends to be lighter than the Western handshake and is also sustained for longer.
- In formal situations, people bow slightly or nod politely to greet one another formally. The bow is from the shoulders and should be greater if the person you are greeting has a higher status than you.
- If seated, the Chinese will stand up out of respect when they are introduced to someone.
- Always greet those that are older than you first.
- Use a person’s family name and appropriate title to address them unless they have indicated that you can move on to addressing them on a first-name basis.
- Usually, only friends address one another by their given names.
- Nicknames are used only between very close friends or lovers.
- To show a high level of respect, friends might use the terms ‘l²¹´Ç’ (old) and ‘z¾±²¹´Ç’ (young) with or instead of titles.
- When first meeting a Chinese person in a rural area, it is common to be invited to join them for a meal. This is an old greeting that offers politeness, yet does not usually transpire into an actual meal.
- It is considered impolite to greet a friend with a comment that could be perceived to have negative connotations, such as "You look tired".