Family
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The average Hong Kongese family unit is the . One child is the norm, as most living spaces are in small, high-rise apartments. Traditionally, the roles of husband and wife, parent and child, and elder brother and younger brother are clearly defined. For example, a husband/father is to exhibit dominance and kindness to his wife in return for obedience and love, and guidance and protection to his children in return for filial , respect and obedience. The mother’s traditional role is to fulfil domestic duties and care for the children. However, in Hong Kong, it is common for families to hire a house helper to carry out domestic duties and childcare so the mother can work full-time. By joining the workforce, many women have earned a higher status in the family. Wives tend to become the decision-makers in family issues.
Age is the overriding factor of seniority in the family. The elders are honoured for their wisdom in accordance with filial and cared for by the family. Hong Kongers worship their ancestors multiple times a year in ceremonies that revere the previous two generations (parents and grandparents). This act of respect honours the belief that children are in eternal debt to their parents.
In collectivist cultures such as Hong Kong, families can be perceived as having a collective . In this sense, the act of an individual will impact others' perception of their entire family. Therefore, individuals should strive to give their family a good name and honour their parents. They are also expected to be loyal to their family before other connections.
Relationships and Marriage
Superstitions and economic positioning heavily influence marriage practices, but the parents’ approval of a child’s future partner is very important. Often, Hong Kongers reserve dates to get married years in advance and are considered lucky. They may also get legally married but wait until they are financially established before having a wedding or banquet. Divorce rates in Hong Kong are some of the lowest in the world. However, they are rising in the up-and-coming generation.