Greetings
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- Greetings are generally formal in Pakistan. Elders should be greeted first out of respect.
- A handshake is the most common greeting when meeting strangers, business associates, or those of a different status (e.g., an elder). One usually shakes hands using the right hand and respectfully places it over the heart afterwards.
- Introductions between men and women may involve a handshake if initiated by the women. However, be mindful that some people may be uncomfortable touching a person of the opposite gender, and prefer to share a verbal greeting without physical contact.
- A Pakistani may simply place their right hand over their heart and give a gentle nod in greeting if they perceive the other person is unaccustomed to being touched.
- Well-acquainted men may hug each other upon greeting.
- Women may kiss each other on both cheeks if they know each other well.
- Physical contact (e.g. hugs, handshakes and kisses) is only considered appropriate between men and women if they are family or close friends.
Verbal Greetings
- Common verbal greetings include “As-Salamu-Alaykum” (‘Peace be upon you’) among Muslim Pakistanis or “Subh bakhair” (Good morning) among Urdu speakers.
- When addressing a person for the first time, use their last name followed by “Sahib” or “Saab”, meaning ‘Mister’.
- Professionals may be greeted using their vocational title, such as “Brigadier” (Doctor), followed by their surname.
- Most Pakistanis speak Urdu in the formal register when meeting someone for the first time. The familiar register is only used when talking to friends and young family.
- The traditional greeting towards Hindus or Indians is “Namaste” (‘I greet the god within you’).