Greetings
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Chara Scroope,
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- The most common greeting in Tonga is a prolonged handshake.
- Among newly acquainted women, the common greetings are a handshake or a nod of acknowledgement.
- In formal settings, the traditional greeting is to put one's right cheek next to the other's right cheek and take a deep breath. This is formally known as ‘´Ú±ð’i±ô´Ç²¹°ì¾±â€™Â (‘greet’) and informally as ‘uma’ (‘kiss’).
- The typical verbal greeting in Tonga is ‘Malo e lelei’ (±á±ð±ô±ô´Ç).
- Visitors may be greeted with ‘°Õ²¹±ô¾±³Ù²¹±ô¾±Ìý´Ú¾±±ð´Ú¾±²¹â€™Â (°Â±ð±ô³¦´Ç³¾±ð).
- As a sign of respect, it is common practice to address one’s counterpart with the appropriate title and family name when first meeting. First names are used thereafter.
- If one is unsure of their Tongan counterpart’s professional or formal title, the terms ‘°Õ²¹²Ô²µ²¹³Ù²¹â€™e¾±°ì¾±â€™Ìý(²Ñ°ù.),Ìý‘¹ó¾±²Ô±ð’e¾±°ì¾±â€™Â (Mrs.) or ‘°Õ²¹â€™a³ó¾±²Ô±ð’ (Miss) are appropriate.
- Tongans usually greet each other when passing casually on the street, even if they are not closely acquainted with one another.